Parents should not spoil their children and get the children less dependent on their parents, such as what to strive for, don't make them so easy to obtain.
Parents should not spoil their children, let the children gradually less dependent on their parents, for example, to own what you want to fight, let them so easy to get.
Parents should not spoil their children, slowly let the children less dependent on their parents, such as what to want their own to fight, not to let them so easy to get.