其次，当你遇到挫折，困难是，真正的朋友一定会开导你，帮助你，而不是在你

其次，当你遇到挫折，困难是，真正的朋友一定会开导你，帮助你，而不是在你落魄时就离你而去。

結果 (英文) 1:

Secondly, when you encounter setbacks, difficulties, true friend will enlighten you and help you, rather than away from you when you come down.

結果 (英文) 2:

Secondly, when you encounter setbacks, difficulties, true friend will guide you, to help you, but not when you're down when they leave you and go.

結果 (英文) 3:

Second, when you are down, difficulty is that true friends will enlighten you and help you, and not leave you down when you're away.